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mitigating DHARMA

Spotlighting Harm, Crafting Care

If you've experienced harm in a Buddhist or spiritually-adjacent, high-demand group, we want you to know: we believe you.

When harm arises at the CENTER of the Dharma, what is “care”?

To be “cared for”, by definition, is to be protected and to have what you need provided for.

Mitigating dHARMa is a resource site built by survivors, for survivors—especially those impacted by harm in Buddhist and Buddhist-adjacent spaces, what we call “dHARMa.” We’re here to CARE for one another by:
centering, validating and exploring the survivor experience; 
locating and organizing resources, making them more easily accessible;
 creating opportunities to connect, collaborate, and co-create caring community; and by elevating individual survivor stories.

What’s your CARE need? To help you find it, we’ve structured our content within the acronym C/A/R/E.

Caveat of C/A/R/E: While all content is crafted to be supportive of survivors, this material can be triggering. Please prioritize self-care. It might be helpful to take breaks; discern which content is helpful, and when; discuss content found here with outside resources (family, friends, therapists). If you are in need of additional support, see {A}llies. You can also reach out at info@mitigatingdHARMa.org.

Forthcoming: Talking About Cults: Abuse and the Study of New Religious Movements, November 2026

First Do No Harm: A Meditation Safety Training

A comprehensive, evidence-based training by the world’s top experts.

Training faculty consist of top experts on meditation-related challenges, including clinicians, researchers, religious studies scholars, yoga and meditation teachers. Perhaps most importantly, the Cheetah House safety training includes individuals who have lived experience of meditation-related difficulties and what was helpful, unhelpful and harmful. Many of the training faculty serve on the Cheetah House Care Team and actively provide support to meditators-in-distress.”

SYMPTOMS:

A table of 59 categories of meditation-related experiences that can be distressing or associated with impairment in functioning. This list is based on the Varieties of Contemplative Experience research study, by Drs. Lindahl and Britton. Symptoms are organized and color-coded by 7 domains: affective, cognitive, somatic, perceptual, sense of self, conative, social. Links to detailed summaries of each domain and corresponding research articles are provided under each heading . In color-coded tables, symptom titles are listed on the left, followed by a description, with symptom-specific resources listed on the right. You can also type your symptom into the search field to search the entire Cheetah House website.

Cheetah House, Symptoms

[A few] Signs of Dissociation

Body Somatic: Extremely still (frozen), Fixed gaze or glassy eyes

Cognitive: Disorientation, ‘Spacey’ or‘ungrounded’ or ‘floating’

Self: Outside body or at a distance, Disconnected from body/emotions/thoughts

Emotion/Motivation: Affective flattening (blunted or loss of emotions), Lack of meaning or motivation

Perception: World appears unreal or dreamlike, Visual hyper-clarity or fog

Social + Occupational: Withdrawn or avoidant, Eye contact difficulty

To view the complete list, visit the link

—Willoughby Britton

The Cheetah House Care Team

We help meditators suffering from adverse effects…Our team has a wealth of experience in a wide range of meditative and spiritual traditions.”

Learn more here

Institutional Courage™  is the solution.

It is an institution’s commitment to seek the truth and engage in moral action, despite unpleasantness, risk, and short-term cost. It is a pledge to protect and care for those who depend on the institution. It is a compass oriented to the common good of individuals, institutions, and the world. It is a force that transforms institutions into more accountable, equitable, effective places for everyone.”

Please,  join us

If you have experienced difficulties or challenges related to meditation, you may be eligible to participate in a study by Emory University.”

Learn more about participating here.

Meditation-Related Challenges Study, Emory University. 2026

Meditation-Related Challenges Study: A study to understand the nature of meditation-related difficulties and adverse effects

** Your Story Matters: If you have experienced difficulties or challenges related to meditation, you may be eligible to participate in a study by Emory University.”

Institutional DARVO occurs when DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender) is committed by an institution (or with institutional complicity) as when police charge rape victims with lying. Institutional DARVO is a particularly aggressive form of institutional betrayal.”

Center For Institutional Courage

[This]is a non-profit, 501(c)(3) institution dedicated to transformative research and education about institutional betrayal and how to counter it through institutional courage.

We are currently prioritizing institutional courage in addressing sexual violence across various kinds of institutions. Additional areas will be added to our research and education agendas as we grow. In all of our research and educational projects, we consider the roles of power, privilege, and marginalization in how institutions both betray and act courageously.”

[Bessel]Van der Kolk sent numerous highly traumatized patients to do mindfulness exercises with John Kabat- Zinn, and he found that many of them were returning in a state of upset and agitation after those experiences. Van der Kolk explained that, as the patients became silent and started to pay attention to themselves during the meditation exercises, their internal sensations could be so intense that they felt overwhelmed and, without the tools to work through those sensations, they would dissociate.”

—Sue Parker Hall
Being mindful of mindfulness

Kate Williams is a PhD researcher in psychology at the University of Manchester and a mindfulness teacher. She has said that ‘negative [mindful] experiences generally fall into one of two categories’: ‘a natural emotional response to self-exploration,’ which might be experienced as ‘pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral’ or the negative experiences can be ‘quite extreme, to the extent of inducing paranoia, delusions, confusion, mania or depression’.”

—Sue Parker Hall
Being mindful about mindfulness

A shared understanding of interpersonal dynamics and norms—such as the goals of practice and issues of authority, hierarchy, and gender equality—often leads to better outcomes, whereas differing worldviews can make it harder to respond to a meditation-related challenges.”

—Willoughby Britton
A Place to Land

Interviews from the VCE [Varieties of Contemplative Experience] project demonstrate that meditation-related challenges are inseparable from the social relationships between meditation practitioners and meditation teachers in ways both helpful and harmful.”

—Willoughby Britton, et al.
The Teacher Matters

In response to accusations of teacher misconduct and abuse that havee merged within various communities in the United States and Europe, a small corpus of scholarship has begun to examine harmful and abusive student-teacher dynamics within Western Buddhist traditions. These studies identify various features that contribute to and perpetuate harmful dynamics, including theological ideas, personality traits, relationship expectations, institutional structures, and conflicts between cultural values, among others.”

—Willoughby Britton, et al.
The Teacher Matters

This paper also offers a detailed assessment of the various impacts – both positive and negative – that a meditation teacher can have on the trajectory of a practitioner who is working through and making sense of challenges.”

—Willoughby Britton, et al.
The Teacher Matters

We have no viable systems of accountability. We have no way of allowing people to report. We have no way of making people feel safe to report.”

—V (formerly Eve Ensler)
The Architecture of Silence in Spiritual Culture

For truth and justice, truth and reconciliation, truth and restoration, truth and repair, I think the first thing we have to acknowledge is that those things are sequential. You can’t get the beautiful ‘R’ words like ‘redemption’ and ‘reconciliation’ and ‘restoration’ and ‘repair’, unless you first tell the truth…I think this process of truth-telling has to shape what we do.”

A person-centered approach respects each meditator’s definitions of well-being and harm, and their personal goals for practice. It’s a central part of a trauma-informed approach, which helps support a sense of empowerment, agency, and autonomy.

It can be as simple as offering options.”

—Willoughby Britton
A Place to Land

Unhelpful or harmful teachers were unavailable, failed to pay close attention to or check in with their students, or lacked knowledge of meditation-related challenges. Teachers rated as harmful were also seen as dismissive and invalidating, often blaming the meditator for their difficulties or offering nonspecific, scripted responses such as ‘keep sitting’ or ‘just observe’. The difference between help and harm often comes down to whether teachers recognize and respond to the distress.”

—Willoughby Britton
A Place to Land

At Cheetah House…[o]ur work focuses on the individual in crisis and the kind of support they need. Importantly, this approach brings in the perspective of the person themselves. Simple questions—such as ‘What would be helpful for you right now?’—can dramatically shift the dynamic, but that shift depends on who is asking and how.”

—Willoughby Britton
A Place to Land

I wish we could all begin with trust and love for each other. But we can’t. There has been too much damage to too many bodies for too many generations.

But we all can begin with respect, caring, and a willingness to help.”

—Resmaa Menakem
My Grandmother's Hands

Trauma is anything the body perceives as too much, too fast, or too soon.”

—Resmaa Menakem
My Grandmother's Hands

I don’t mean ‘cult’ here in the automatically pejorative, sensationalistic sense but rather in the sense of a self-enclosed entity that is both overattached to its core beliefs and almost impermeable to outside feedback and internal dissension…The range of cultic behavior is enormous: ego can arguably be a cult of one; plenty of couples function as cults of two; and various religious and political movements are cults of the many.”

—Robert Augustus Masters
Spiritual Bypassing

Boundaries make freedom possible by clarifying what must be worked with, not just personally and transpersonally, but also interpersonally. Since everything – everything! – exists through relationship, it is crucial that we learn to work well within relationship, both with others and with our own needs, states, and identity. This work is not possible if our boundaries are not clearly delineated and skillfully maintained.”

—Robert Augustus Masters
Spiritual Bypassing

A WELCOME NOTE FROM MITIGATING DHARMA‘S FOUNDER

Hi, there.
My name is Max (formerly known as “Bosui”), she/her/hers, and I want to begin by saying how deeply sorry I am for your encounter with dHARMa.
The seeds for this site were planted in the aftermath of my own experience of spiritual abuse and institutional betrayal as a committed Zen student at a respected American Zen Center, an experience which I came to call dHARMa. In my deepest of deep suffering, I began an urgent search for resources, trying to understand what had happened to me. I sought out “elders”—people far outside the Buddhist framework—for insight.
The more I found, the more I discovered my experience being reflected back to me. That recognition was a powerful antidote to the gaslighting I had endured within my dHARMa. I grew stronger. And as I grew stronger, I became increasingly hungry for stories from other dHARMa survivors.
I began finding them—in fragments from interviews, in fully voiced podcasts, in passing mentions—and when I did, I felt awe. And recognition. Despite differences in the details, we were connected: we all got it. And lo and behold, through the sharing of their stories, these survivors offered up to me a new – much needed – community.
Mitigating dHARMa was born from this journey, and from my desire to pull together what has taken years to uncover and connect by the effort of many.
Please, explore; it is here for you, and constantly evolving. Find what is meaningful, and if you feel moved, be part of its evolution.
I’m truly glad you’re here.
Take good CARE,

Play Max's dHARMa story

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Throughout the site you’ll encounter opportunities and invitations to connect and contribute.
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Trauma can be dehumanizing. Through connections with others and mutual support, survivors can reclaim their humanity.

– Judith Herman, Trauma and Recovery

Mutual caring is a powerful, and often underutilized, way to change the world.

– Mr. Rogers